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I AM Perfect by LekkerrBloeiend I AM Perfect by LekkerrBloeiend
I'm starting to get really sick of parent, who keep telling me I have to be carefull with my weight. Telling me, I'm chubby, or even fat.
I've told them: "my weight, is my responsibility! I actually think, how I am now, is pretty perfect."
Then they tell me: "that's really good. It's most importand, what you think of yourself. You shouldn't let anyone tell you otherwise." But at the end of the day, they are judging me again.
Than it's like: "it's for your own protection", "we're just saying it, so that other poeple won't" or "we just don't want it to get worse"
I've told them, the more they say it, the less I care. But they keep doing it. I'm sick of it! I feel like I'm the right weight. But they're starting to confince me otherwise.
This is not helpfull it just makes me insecure. And I just have to keep telling myself:

MY WEIGHT, MY RESPONSIBILLITY! IT'S NOT ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK, IT'S ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL AND I FEEL PERFECT!


Sooo I thought, why not make an art project out of it. I hope it might help other people realize, even if people call you things, that does not make them true.

(sorry this turned into such a rant, but I just had to get it of my chest :XD:)
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Akuard Sep 12, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
I guess. Can we see more of you? Like a full body shot in regular clothes. 
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LekkerrBloeiend Sep 22, 2013   Photographer
Maybe, I have some ideas for full body shots. But with my new school I just haven't had the time ^^;
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Akuard Sep 22, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Don't blame it on school! You'll always have an excuse your WHOLE LIFE. Get beyond that. 
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PurpleWarroir May 31, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
YES YOU ARE and you have all the rights to stress it!
parents trying to correct you? Just don't listen like you were already doing, when you're living a healthy and happy live there's absolutely no point in trying changing anything, because there's nothing wrong about you (u)
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LekkerrBloeiend Jun 3, 2013   Photographer
YES! Thanx, I completely agree with you ^_^
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PurpleWarroir Jun 5, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
good, that's the spirit! 8D
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unreal-hunter May 30, 2013  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
Damn, where's the 'supportive parent' when you need em >.<
I side with you, I'd rather have some meat on my bones, and a healthy supply of extra's, than be one of those skinny, trained-down bonebags.
And the same goes for women. The 'barbie' ideal has been proven to be very unhealthy.

and as an aid to your self defence, if your BMI doesn't go over 25, there is nothing to worry about. Hope that gives you an arguement in the battle.
Good luck, and keep your convictions strong!
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LekkerrBloeiend Jun 3, 2013   Photographer
unfortunatly, it does not :XD: My mom is a VERY stubborn dietician ^^; but thanx for your suport anyway :aww:
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unreal-hunter Jun 3, 2013  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
ai, good luck with that
fanatics can be so.... fanatic, y'know?
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Friend-of-Clouds May 30, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Excellent. If you feel right the way you are, then that's the right way to be. :)
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