I'm starting to get really sick of parent, who keep telling me I have to be carefull with my weight. Telling me, I'm chubby, or even fat.
I've told them: "my weight, is my responsibility! I actually think, how I am now, is pretty perfect."
Then they tell me: "that's really good. It's most importand, what you think of yourself. You shouldn't let anyone tell you otherwise." But at the end of the day, they are judging me again.
Than it's like: "it's for your own protection", "we're just saying it, so that other poeple won't" or "we just don't want it to get worse"
I've told them, the more they say it, the less I care. But they keep doing it. I'm sick of it! I feel like I'm the right weight. But they're starting to confince me otherwise.
This is not helpfull it just makes me insecure. And I just have to keep telling myself:
MY WEIGHT, MY RESPONSIBILLITY! IT'S NOT ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK, IT'S ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL AND I FEEL PERFECT!
Sooo I thought, why not make an art project out of it. I hope it might help other people realize, even if people call you things, that does not make them true.
(sorry this turned into such a rant, but I just had to get it of my chest